Am I Black
or African American? Is Mexican the same as Latinx? How Camila constructs her
identity will have a lot to do with how we, her mother, father, and their families,
define ourselves. In Roberto Carlos Garcia’s article on The Root, “So You’re Afro-Latinx. Now What?,” He notes, “America
thrusts black or white upon you quickly, and you have to decide, you have to
know who and what you are” (Garcia).
This knowing, though, takes time as
Camila comes to this realization with a barrage of influences. As she comes of
age, she will work through how her family identifies themselves and hopefully discover
for herself where she fits. The books that we read to her in the early stages
of this development will strengthen her foundation. So, my search for picture
books about children who are both Mexican and Black continues.
While
there are a number of books about mixed race characters, so many of them seem
to focus on children whose race is mixed with white. There are very few stories
about children who celebrate their mixed minority races, and I have yet to find
one about a child like Camila. My search, though not entirely in vain, reveals
a collection of stories that some may say is too specific. But haven’t the
books before the push for diversity also been too specific? Just as Camila will
likely read books about children who are not like her, the children who are not
like her should also read books about children like Camila. This helps to encourage
empathy and compassion for people who are not like us.
It is the
desire to see one’s self represented that leads to diverse books. “‘Diversity’
should just be called ‘reality.’ Your books, your articles, your curricula need
to reflect reality” (Due).
So maybe we, Camila’s family, should write the story that we’d like to tell her,
children like her, and the children who want to get to know her. Children are
very different, and we should be okay with acknowledging that.
I’m extremely
proud that Rocío immediately saw the importance of Camila knowing who she is
early on. And while I took this for granted when I was her age, I’m open to learning
as my family grows.
Click here
for a list of children’s picture books that celebrate diverse, real identities.
(KT)
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